I Wish I Could Miss

Reflecting upon my single life today, the following popped into my head.

I would miss…

• Warm welcomes home
• Sweet nothings whispered in my ear
• Working together as a couple, as a family
• Being appreciated for all that I do
• The loving looks
• Compliments
• Little surprises
• Outings together
• Meeting up with friends

But you cannot miss what you never had so instead …

 

I will not miss…

• The cold silence when I walked in the door
• The indifference
• Being watched while I cooked, cleaned, etc.
• Being taken for granted
• The disgusted looks that were just for me
• The teasing, insensitive jokes and put-downs
• All the missed birthdays and special occasions
• The repeated declines to my suggestions of things to do together
• A life devoid of friendships and laughter

 

If you are newly single or still struggling to get over someone, why not try making these lists for yourself? It just might help 🙂

Psaryce x